This is a hard one for me. I’ve admired the iPhone for years and considered getting one. But I’ve held off. Then there are the Android phones which get better every year, not to mention the new iPhones. A smartphone promises instant and constant connectivity, access to unlimited information at the swipe of a finger.
It’s now 2011 and I am looking at the latest version of the iPhone (Verizon anyone?). But is this a need or a want? Last summer I got an iPod Touch and absolutely love it. I use it for email, a calendar, a Bible, Facebook, and much more. I’m now more connected then ever before. What if I take the next step? I’m questioning whether this really helps in the simple lifestyle I want to live. I’ll let you know what happens.
Stuff complicates our lives. It can become a plague, increasing and demanding space, creeping into our closets, drawers, garages, basements and attics. The longer it’s there the harder it becomes to part with. As a result we buy larger houses or rent storage units. Moving becomes a nightmare.
Take action today. Start small. Pick an area such as a drawer or corner of a room. Have a trash can handy and don’t spend too long on any given item. Put everything into one of three piles: remove, keep, or wait. Items in the remove pile can be given to friends, Goodwill, or trashed. Put items in the wait pile into a container and seal it. Write an expiration date on the container and reevaluate after six months. You may find that you didn’t need or miss its contents. Then either keep them or get rid of them.
Letting go takes work. But don’t give up, keep attacking one small area at a time. Question whether you would replace something if it broke; if not then you probably don’t need it. Do you have clothes you never wear or haven’t worn in a year? Give them away. What about books that you haven’t read in years, or never? Loan them out to friends, or give them away. Have something that you’ll never use but keep because of its memories? Take a picture of it before throwing it away. The more you physically handle something the more it means to you, even if it has no real value.
Be radical, ignore the voice in your head that’s been trained to warn you that you might need that someday. The fear of what if can be overwhelming. Live in the present, not in the what ifs. For the one rare occasion where you might need something that you’ve gotten rid of there are thousands of occasions where you have too much. Eventually it will become easier to decide to part with things.
Our society is distracted. Information comes at us from all directions vying for our attention. We are connected to streams of communication and constant activity. A wealth of knowledge is at our fingertips with answers for any conceivable question. We are more connected and social than ever before. The question is, at what price? Has the speed of society and the ever expanding wealth of information come at a cost?
When I moved from California to a rural part of the Midwest I was struck by the contrast in the pace at which life moved. I went from speeding on the highways just to stay with traffic to being stuck behind an Amish horse and buggy. My life came to a crawl. Subconsciously I was able to catch my breath. Initially I had no internet, barely any phone reception and little contact with society. This period of my life helped me connect with God more closely than ever before. I valued the time spent reading spiritual books without distractions. Of course life picked up again, but for this period I was able to appreciate something unique, a quiet life.
I value that time spent and, years later, am attempting to cut the unnecessary out of my life. We may have 1000+ friends on Facebook, but are these real connections, are these real friends? It’s important to find out what distractions are holding you back. Identify them and cut them out of your life. Then you can focus on things that really matter.
Imagine taking the time spent watching television and devoting that to something worthwhile. Suddenly you have free time available to spend with loved ones or on developing new skills. No cable or dish means having one less bill to pay each month. If you want to watch a movie visit your local Redbox or video store and rent one.
The decision to stop watching TV may feel uncomfortable or radical but after seven years without TV I can attest to not missing it. And news? You can check online. If there’s anything newsworthy your friends or family will let you know. Make a resolution to simplify your life by calling your cable provider and canceling their services!
Look at your keys. Are you carrying a five pound ball of metal, rubber and plastic? I have found that I only need a single keyring with keys for my car, apartment, and office. For rewards cards I tell the store clerk my phone number and they’ll honor my rewards points.
Losing my keyring is unlikely because I keep it either in my pocket, a bowl by the front door, or in my laptop bag. All of this is just another step in simplifying my life and carrying only the essential with me.